Thursday, December 20, 2012

COCINA TICA!

 I have been working on putting together a Costa Rican cookbook for a friend of mine, and thought that maybe someone else might find it useful and interesting. I will be posting it in parts, so consider this the first installment!


Intro to Costa Rican Cooking
In Costa Rica the most common foods are rice and beans, or beans and rice.  These are part of breakfast, lunch and dinner, and often appear prepared in various ways and in combination with various other foods. Fresh fruits and vegetables are plentiful, as well as meats (usually chicken, beef and pork) and cheese. 

Example of breakfast:  gallo pinto (see recipe) with scrambled eggs and toast. 
Example of lunch: arroz con pollo (see recipe) with side salad and beans and tortilla.
Example of dinner: casado (rice and beans) with a fillet of meat, a side salad, picadillo (see recipe) and fried plantains.

What are the essential ingredients for a Costa Rican dish?

Rice and beans, obviously. 
Rice should be as complete as possible, that is to say, the complete grain. White rice is the most common, but you can try any of these recipes with brown rice. It is usually cooked with a little minced onion, some salt and oil.
Beans are best made fresh, and not out of can. To make beans, soak them overnight in water or for a minimum of 6 hours before cooking.  (TIP: For speedy preparation, soak beans for 3 hours in hot water.) Cook them on low heat, regularly adding water, until they are tender and cooked through.  It is not unusual to see a stain around the rim of the pot, and it is important to add water to keep beans from burning at the bottom of the pot. Add salt to taste. If you are in a hurry, beans out of can are an acceptable alternative.
Other essential ingredients are:
Sweet red pepper
Onion
Cilantro
Salsa Lizano (an alternative is cumin powder)

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Last night in paradise.

The last two weeks have flown by...arriving again to Costa Rica, taking the bus home, spending a few glorius days with my hubby, going to the beach, visiting with extended family, seeing old friends, tasting old foods and taking the bus, cooking gallo pinto and drinking coffee, watching cable tv and remembering all the channels. There are so many little thinsg that I have noticed, things that I miss while I am in the USA. This is my real life, the life I have here, even if Spanish is not my first language and I was not born Tica. I am Tica at heart.

There are some things that are so ingrained though, that I will forever be marked as a gringa...

-Tico time. This is a concept I have never really gotten used to. I still live by the clock, which is really a very North American attitude. When I am with my hubby, however, I find it easier to be relaxed...his relaxed attitude about time I try to imitate to avoid getting stressed out. But on my own...I am still almost always 10 minutes early.

-Individualism. I still have a very "me" attitude. Talking today with my Mama Tica I realized that, and it really humbled me. Something that I really love in Tico culture is the inclusiveness and strong sense of family, but I find that I lack this myself. I hope that will eventually change, but it will require a lot more effort on my part, and I am only recently realizing that.

-Walking. I speed walk. My normal pace is at least 5 times faster than that of any Tica. Granted, many of them are usually wearing heels or wedges, or travelling with a child, or texting, or watching thier step on the uneven sidewalks, but still...I walk too fats to be a Tica. If you ask me it comes from having brothers who now outsrip me height-wise and a hubby who has two speeds...pause and fast forward. In any case, it helps to keep me in shape.

Tomorrow morning I fly back to the USA, and I am glad fro Spanish Instyle to keep me company during my long layover.
I am not sure when I will be back, but one thing is for sure....I am already feel homesick for my beautiful Costa Rica.

Pura Vida.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

cuenta regresiva....COUNT DOWN!

Next month (which is not soon enough, if you ask me!), I will be returning to my beloved home away from home, Costa Rica!
A month ago my hubby went back to continue working freelance before his big job trip starting late November, back on board a cruise ship as the resident naturalist guide. My viaje back to the rich coast coincides with his departure and making a last trip to visit extended family and friends as well as helping to close up house for quite a while.
During my stay in the USA I have accumulated various gifts for my extended family, as well as separating out my summer and winter clothes. I have decided that the easiest course of action is to take with me and leave at home in CR all my warm weather clothes...that is, about half my closet! The rest I will keep in the USA for cold weather climes.
SO needless to say...I will have a checked bag.

Traveling in 20 days!

PURA VIDA : )))

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Adios, CPI

The other day I realized that this is my fourth season working at the school. It doesn't seem like it has been that long, but I sure have grown up a lot since first coming back in 2008 as a student and starting to work with groups in 2009.
My first trip to Costa Rica with my university will forever and always be an important and life changing experience, when I fell in love with this country and the Spanish language even more.
I will always remember fondly my training week with Gerry, Jessica and Maria as we travelled between the schools and locations preparing for the upcoming season. Although it seems that no matter what you do to help prepare someone for a job or task, there are always unexpected details and situations that you are challenged with...! I know there are many more things I learned along the way, rather than learning during training week.
The time I have spent here and conversations I have had have made all the difference in my language skills. Truly I am an example of the powers of an immersion experience, after living here and picking up Spanish in a way not possible in the USA (hmm, if I lived in an area with more of a Latino population that might be a different story). But I have been immersed in Tico culture, and while I am still learning I am confident in saying that I have most of the ins and outs down.

I have met so many people here...students, co-workers, chofers, taxistas, Familias Ticas, hotel and restaurant staff, tour guides, pharmacists, professors, etc. The opportunities I have had to travel and meet people just really amaze me, looking back and thinking of all the places I have been. So much of the country and so many tours I have gone on have been through CPI and part of my job...! What a cool job!

These last few weeks and helping to train new chaperones has really made me realize how much I know, how much I can do and handle. I think CPI is starting to realize it as well, how much they will miss me...
Right now I am not sure when I will return to Costa Rica after this trip back to the USA, but I know without a doubt that I will be back.

I never ever could have imagined the path my life has taken, after graduating and moving down here for a year. In a short amount of time so much has changed, my life took an unexpected turn. I fell in love, married, applied for residency, settled in. Never did I think things would work out this way...! But I cannot say that I am unhappy, or bored. My life is fulfilling in so many ways that I never could have imagined.

Included here is a picture of Jessica and Muni and myself, the only three who are still here from four seasons ago when I first began.
Going to miss these girls! Going to miss Costa Rica, and going to miss CPI...but I can't honestly say that I will miss the insanity of high season!

Pura Vida

Friday, June 15, 2012

last day of school!

My Daytonions are all sitting in their last Spanish class, and I am all set for graduation later with my slideshow and certificates.
It has been a great group on the whole, and this afternoon we are celebrating with a snorkel cruise out of Tamarindo...! It is one of the more fun and beautiful tours to do here in Playa Flamingo, and I know they are all looking forward to it.

Yesterday I DID go to the beach after all! While I was lunching two of my girls came up to me and excitedly shared that they had spoken with my boss, that it was ok for me to go.When I asked them who they had spoken with, it turns out they had asked the Assistant Manager of the school...who is not my boss! My boss is in Monteverde, I told them. They left with determined faces...moments later I got a phone call from the Groups Office in Monteverde, with a co-worker asking why she was getting calls from CPI Flamingo about me going to the beach, and who is this student from my group on the other line, why is she calling?? And then I was told to go, just go!
So I went to the beach. It was a gorgeous sunny day, and lots of my girls were laying out tanning, and everyone was in and out of the water, hoping over waves and getting their feet wet to cool off. I came back to the office a littel early, just to wrap up a few details for today, and then went home. Last night I treated my homestay family to gelato, how delicious...I have actually gone to get gelato every evening this week. Thinking next week I will have to go on a diet, haha! Or my shorts won't fit the same the rest of the summer.

In half an hour I finish up my week here at CPI Flamingo...ADIOS!


Pura Vida

Thursday, June 14, 2012

sunshine on the window...

As the days go by, I am more and more excited to finish up working.

Today the sun is shining outside, it is a beautful bright day at the beach, and I am indoors. The last few days my group has been asking me to go with them to the beach, asking why I don't go with them. After all, my job is to go with the group, right? Nothing doing! I am not permitted to go to the beach with my group, instead I stay in the groups office and wait to for them to send me tasks to do...! It is really frustrating, on top of having to deal with the staff here. I have not had the best of interactions with them, and I am just excited to get away!

They have asked me to stay until Tuesday the 19th, to help train a few more chaperones... I have agreed. Once I am gone, I think they will have a hard time replacing me and I get the impression that they are starting to realize that...!

I wish I could go soak up the sun outside. Soon enough, soon enough!

Pura Vida!

Monday, June 11, 2012

last week!

UD has just one more week of class here at CPI Flamingo. I am excited to be here at the beach, but being inside most of the day I do not have much of an opportunity to bronze...! Oh how I envy my students, as they have a lot more free time and have the chance to go and enjoy the beach and hear the waves, the whole beautiful Guanacaste experience.
Today I am not in the best of moods, as I was kicked out of the groups office so my professor could work there. I understand that he needs a workspace, but being told that I have to vacate my space without so much as an if-you-please really bugs the crap out of me. Again I am reminded of why CPI Flamingo remains my least favorite campus...! And it is not because of the location.

I will finish working on June 18th, and on that day I am pretty sure I will be in Heredia. It is sad but also a relief to know I will be leaving. The last two weeks being in Monteverde and being in close contact with the Groups office, I think they are starting to realize how much will change when I go. This last weekend I played mini-mission control for my new co-workers, as they called to talk with me about getting a chofer's cell phone number and how a airport drop-off will typically go. Who will they call when I am gone??

But there are other things that make me excited to leave...right now I am observing a conversation of a young girl on the phone with her father in the USA, and it seems that she is desperately home-sick. That is not something I will miss having to deal with. Nor the one, outrageous and annoying personality in my group right  now, the one girl I cannot stand being around. The other day I realized that this is my 4th season working, and I have seen a lot of things happen and met a lot of people and seen a lot of this amazing country.
I live in a paradise, but work is not always a breeze...

Still looking very much forward to flying back to good old Ohio, and having my esposo with me.


Pura Vida!

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Adios, May...Hola, June.

How is it already June 6th? It seems like the entire month of May just tiptoed behind my back for 31 days and dissapeared...! June marks the start of summer in the USA and of winter here in CR, and I am excited to go back to the USA and experience a nice hot summer, vacation with my family and work on my tan.

This is my 3rd week with the UD group and it has been a great experience. All of the students are good solid UD kids, in the sense that they remind me of how much fun my college years were and chatting with them brings back all kinds of good memories, as well as boosting my mood. Yesterday they offered to go get me lunch..! And over the weekend they went on a trip to the beach and told me that it wasn't the same without me. Just such a genuinely nice bunch! Of course there are always a few bumps along the way with any group, and not everyone's personalities mesh 100% of the time. But on the whole it has been a lot, a LOT of fun with UD!

Next week I am unsure of what I will be doing. There are some new chaperones that I may have to train, but I know the professor of the UD group won't like that I am leaving...just be flexible. Hopefully I will know before we leave Saturday for the weekend tour!

Already thinking of what I need to pack to go back to the USA. Things for summer season, work clothes, maybe even fall/winter things? Still not sure of how long we will stay...just know I am glad to make the trip.

Pura Vida!

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

the delights of uncertainty

It is official: in June E and I will be visiting the USA.
At this time we are not sure how long we will stay, nor are we sure of our plans after the visit.
Ah, how cloudy the future is!

In any case, looking forward to UDF ice cream, 4th of July firewoks, and getting a hug from my family.


Pura Vida

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

rain in the valley

Already well into the swing of things here at CPI Heredia.

I still have a new chaperone with me this week to finish up training, and all is well. My hands are full making sure that all the new chaps are updated and informed, and showing them little behind the scenes details before they are thrown into their own group. Sometimes ''sink or swim" is the best way to learn...! On the whole I am excited to see each of them out and about with a group, and after the last week I am confident that they will be ready, armed with common sense and good training. This week I also have a few other little projects to do that will keep me from worrying too much about them!
Right now we are all together in a little apartment close to the school. It is just like being in college again, having room-mates that come and go and preparing food together and talking about Costa Rica and sharing everything. We have had some great experiences and converstaions together so far! 

The last few days have been rainy here in the Central Valley. I gave in and bought a nice big umbrella in Heredia that matches well with my new backpack...! The only umbrella I had was a bit small to serve me well through the rainy season. The thunder is rolling through the sky above us right now...

Have I mentioned that I am with the UD group this year? They are staying in Costa Rica for a whole month studying, and I am having so much fun with them. Most of the groups I have had so far this year have been younger kids, so it is refreshing to have a group of older students who are a little more independent and who I can relate to more (especially since they are from my native Dayton, OHIO!). The next couple weeks with them will fly by.

E and I are still trying to finalize our plans to come to the USA, so I remain excited and hopeful and in limbo....!
Looking forward to seeing my family in the USA again soon.

Pura Vida


Wednesday, May 16, 2012

mis pollitos-my little chicks

It is now Wednesday night and I am well into my week training the new chaperones.
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Right now we are in Monteverde, after receiving them Monday night at SJO and staying in a local hostel. We spent all day Tuesday going up and down in Heredia, having the newbies get reacquainted with San Joaquin and walking around downtown Heredia for the first time. We visited various restaurants, hotels and were welcomed by the CPI staff. Three of the four new chaps I am with were students like me, so they have had a Costa Rica experience and know a little bit about what to expect in the job. One of them was a student of mine last year...! And I am so glad she will be part of the team this season.

I keep trying to remember everything I had questions about, everything I was uncertain of when I first started in this position. My first training comes to mind, all those years ago, with Jessica and Maria in the van and Gerry explaining to us about Costa Rica and CPI. What fun memories! It makes me feel nostalgic.

Tomorrow we have a tour in the morning and then in the afternoon we go to CPI Flamingo, which will be a first for all of them, as the former students never studied at CPI Flamingo and the other does not know Costa Rica.
I only hope that after this training they feel prepared, as they are my pupils this week and if they have any failings it will fall on my shoulders as my fault. I want them to be as prepared and as confident as they can be before they get their first group.
All of these chaperones will do well, I think. They all have a positive attitude, speak good Spanish (and a few I anticipate will improve during the season), and have the leadership skills and confidence that will earn them respect and admiration from their students as well as school staff.

But this week, as they learn what it is like from the logistical side with more responsibility, they are my pupils...
my pollitos (little chicks), following in my footsteps. Trying to cut a clear path!

Pura Vida

Monday, May 14, 2012

training day...Costa Rican version

This week I will be on the go, up and down and all around to the three campuses.
In the calm before the storm of high season there are four new chaperones arriving, and being the veteran of the department I will be doing a week-long training session with them. Tonight I am going to pick them up from the airport and tomorow we begin our run about of Heredia and San Joaquin, visiting all the places they will go with groups. Then we do the same thing in Monteverde and Flamingo, and then I pick up my new group on Saturday.

In preparation for this week of training I am trying to remember what it was that we did three years ago when we were trained...! The places we went to, what we did, what it was like. I think that the success of the training really depends on the new chaperones and the kinds of questions they ask, how much they invest in the experience.

I have only the highest hopes for them! And am looking forward to a little action after the last couple days glued to an office chair.

Pura Vida...vamos chicos!

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

mountaintop

Yes, you guessed it...back in Monteverde.
I arrived yesterday night in the public bus and shooed away at least 4 people trying to offer me info on local hostels...my big backpack and printed pants sure made me stand out, but don't let my looks decieve you. I am no tourist in this town.

For at least the next week and a half I will be here, working in the office and I think training a couple new chaperones. We will see...this job is always fly by the seat of your pants, and my schedule isn't set in stone til the day before (or during high season, the day-of).
Yesterday I accompanied E to the airport and bid him farewell on his visit to the USA. It is just a little while, with contacts he made while at sea. But it sure felt strange and sad to leave him there at the airport...! But just as soon we will be greeting each other again, and next time we travel we will be boarding the plane together.

Amazingly enough it hasn't rained yet today! We are enjoying a dose of strong mountain sunshine, and I am like a little lizard according to my compañeras, always sunning myself whenever I get the chance. Just glad I do not have to run around under my rain jacket...at least not yet. For now I am getting the most out of my sunglasses.

Pura Vida

Friday, May 4, 2012

legal to drive in CR

Today my adventure took me all the way to La Uruca in San Jose.
I left around 7:30am on a direct bus, got off at the wrong stop and taxied to where I needed to be. I waited in line for about 4 hours, took a bad picture and...got my license. Here is how to go about doing it!

Documentation you need:
Passport (3 copies, along with 3 copies of your last enrty to the country; you should be within the legal 90 days! Otherwise forget it)
Foriegn licensen (3 copies front and back)
Dictamen medico (3 copies, make sure your blood type is listed)

Where you go:
Offices of COSEVI in La Uruca in San Jose. Ticos can go and renew or get a license at most Banco de Costa Ricas after getting an appointment, or at the MOPT (Ministerio de Obras Publicas y Transportes) offices in any given province.
For extranjeros, your foriegn license has to be validated at the main offices in San Jose. It cannot be done anywhere else.

What you do:
Go in to COSEVI  and follow the signs all the way to the back of the complex. Skip the line (all of the people waiting are Tico, you follow a different process) and show the worker your passport and license. He will ask to make sure you have all the copies you need, and then direct you to a waiting area. You will wait to have your paperwork ok'd and then go to a specific window to be attended to. You will present your validated paperwork and documentation, give your maritial status, phone number, home address and email. Then you will be given a payslip to go and pay C4,000 (about $8USD) at the Banco de Costa Rica. This bank is located near the entrance of the complex, across the way from where you see the signs for "CAJEROS." Don't be embarassed to ask for directions! You pay there and they give you a reciept. Then you return to the same window, present your pay stamp, take your picture, and get your license. Ta-da!

I am now legal to drive in Costa Rica. Now I just need a car...!

Pura Vida


Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Labor Day for the Ticos

Today is Labor Day!
Most businesses and stores are closed, with the exception of essential personel sticking around to keep things running. The buses aren't as crowded and run less frequently, many people are at home relaxing. If you have to work today, you are paid triple. (Which means I should double check what I am making!) Today I am working until 5pm so that I will have my days off next week, and the school here in Heredia is completely deserted, as well as the town.
Lucky me, I have my Mama Tica nearby to grab a quick lunch!

It seems the winter has officially come too, as it just started raining when I came in the door. Now there is a steady downpour, and the thought of going to the bus stop at 5pm and facing traffic and wetting my legs is not so appealing. Nor of course is walking home in rain like this so appealing, but I hope that by the time I am back (ideally 8pm at the latest) it is not raining. Really I just  hope I can get a bus! That not all of the drivers took advantage of Labor Day, and that I can get home safe and dry this evening.

Pura Vida

Friday, April 27, 2012

"chubasco"

Friday and the end of a long week. A couple long weeks! I feel like I have been on tour for a year.
Luckily starting next week I have some time off (starting Wednesday), and I am looking forward to waking up late and drinking coffee at home and making batidos with my blender, which I actually miss quite a bit.

Here in Heredia it is raining just a little bit, enough that you need an umbrella but not enough to call a taxi. When it rains like this you can use several different descriptive words: llovizno, pelo de gato, or chubasco. (I just learned chubasco, as you might have guessed from the title of my blog) And of course today my group has to walk home.
A little bit ago I went down to the local farmer's market, which is every Friday here in town, and bought starfruit, strawberries and mango to make batidos while I am home. I love having fresh fruit at home, and such high quality and cheap fresh fruit! E is more likely to stock cheese in the fridge, but I am all about fruit : )

Tomorrow this group goes to the airport and I go home for the weekend...cannot wait! TGIF!

Pura Vida

Friday, April 20, 2012

adrenaline and good news

Today has been nothing but "carreras" or rushing...
Yesterday I helped to receive my new group for next week, and then went back to attending my current group. We just had our final graduation eceremony and tomorrow I pick them up at 4:30am to make sure they get to the airport on time. Then at 7:30am I pick up the OTHER group to do a walking tour in Heredia and afterwards a hike in Braulio Carillo National Park. No rest for the weary...I am hitting the hay tonight for sure.

In other news, I have completed my application for residency and have to wait 90 working days for all my paperwork to be processed. On Thursday E accompanied me to help complete everything, and I am so relieved, let me tell you!! We got there early and had to wait in line for a good long while, but once in we were attended to fairly quickly. One step closer to being Tica!

Also, E was waiting to tell me in person that...we WILL be able to visit the USA this summer! I was so shocked and excited and well, slightly annoyed at the way he revealed the information, but on the whole I am super happy and starting to look for flights. Que bueno!

What a long and exhausting week this has been. Today I feel like I have been running on pure adrenaline...tonight I am going to sleep very, very well.

Pura Vida

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

: (

Some dissapointing news.
E and I will not be able to travel to the USA this summer. We are looking at other options and hope to make a visit in the future, but for now things are on hold.

And things always happen for a reason. I have to keep looking at the bright side.

Pura Vida...
rainy day in Costa Rica.

Monday, April 16, 2012

from house to home

This past weekend I came down from the mountains, rode the bus a lot, and arrived back in the Central Valley...surrounded by mountains and people, with lots of traffic and the smell of suburbia. Monteverde is like home, and Heredia is like a house I know with my eyes closed.Today we went on a tour of The Butterfly Farm, and tomorrow the delicious Cafe Britt and a city tour of Heredia (yes, I am leading that one!).

On Saturday I made a quick trip to visit my extended family, which is part of why I rode the bus so much. Being there reminds me how much I like it, and I hope to go and visit again soon, maybe for the weekend. It is so laid back, and it is always great to spend time with my suegra (mother-in-law). I always learn new recipes.
Tomorrow E and I will find out for sure what our summer plans will be! Hoping for all the best.

Meanwhile mapping out awalking tour of downtown Heredia for tomorrow, working on various little projects, and relishing the feeling of being back in the big city...!

Pura Vida

ps. pictures later

Thursday, April 12, 2012

care package?

This past weekend I have to tell you that I felt homesick. After talking with my mom and brothers on Skype and recalling all the family activities we do, I felt like I should have been there...

So, this is a call out for a care package, if you should feel it in your heart to send me a lil reminder of home. (I feel bad always asking my mom! I figure I still know tons of people in the USA)
My only requests are....

Reeses cups
Cliff bars
a pair of SKULL CANDY earbuds (ink'd are the best, color doesn't matter! I know this is a little pricey but the earbuds here are all really cheap and the pair I finally bought do not fit and keep falling out, which is starting to drive me a little crazy)
a map of Ohio

If anything else comes to mind that you think I might enjoy, go for it!! Message me if you would like to send something, and I will email you my postal address. All ideas are welcome...!! Thanks in advance.

Pura Vida


tamal mudo

Picture of a "tamal mudo" and you can see that it only has beans and egg in it! Also note the shape..oblong.

Monday, April 9, 2012

new group, new week, new year...

Note about the "tamal mudo"... it is called "mute" because it does not contain meat! I will post a picture later.

On Saturday I arrived to Heredia after taking a very full bus. There was a light rain, and it seems that winter is coming a little earlier than usual with the wet weekend we just had. Before my group arrived at the airport I visited a friend in Llorente and then went to the school to double check the flight status and pick up a few items...then it was off to the airport with my chauffer, in in just 40 minutes of waiting my group had exited and we were on our way to dinner and then our hotel. Sunday we arrived to Monteverde and after testing, orientation and lunch, the students left to spend the evening with their new Familia Tica.

This group is from California, and are an average of 14 years old. They are full of energy but are very well behaved, thank goodness! I think that the attitude of the professor accompanying them might have something to do with it...she is quite the authoritarian figure! Right now I am still working out how to not step on her toes, as she likes to be the one to explain activities or plans to the group (which is typically my job!). But she means well and is very invested in the overall experience, which is a plus.
Luckily she knows all the students pretty well, so when I got a call about a homesick kid last night it was something she dealt with, not me!
Mondays are always pretty busy, and today is no exception. I have my hands full with orienting my group, in addition to other little details like making student IDs, confirming tomorrow's activities, and updating the school's online database.

Tonight some friends are meeting up at the sushi place in town for a little celebration...today is my birthday.
I feel very blessed and very loved having received calls and messages from people all day!
Start of another year, full of mystery and possibility...

Pura Vida.

Friday, April 6, 2012

hope you aren't thirsty

An interesting note on the happeneings of Semana Santa here in Costa Rica.

Traffic has been insane.
Masses are all hours of the day and are ususally packed to standing room only, as E and I discovered yesterday.
Tamales are still a special food this time of year, but are found in the form of a "tamal mudo" which literally means a "mute tamal," and while I am not sure of the origins of the name I will do some investigating and let you know...along with posting a picture of the tamal mudo I have in the mini fridge back in Monteverde.

Also, all of the local bars are closed and the sale of alcohol is prohibited. This I find particularly strange, as in the USA I have never seen or heard a state mandated reason for closing bars on religious holidays...But here there is no place to drink liquor or beer, and all of the alcohol in the grocery stores is hidden behind black plastic and tape. This was something that escaped my notice last year, as I spent Holy Week with a friend in her home, which was pretty isolated. I find the practice to be both very respectful and very absurd. What are all the folks on vacation going to do around the campfire on the beach? Or the old friends who plan to get together over this week? Yes I am aware that going to the local watering hole is not the only option, but it seems that the proprieters are missing out on business.

Anyway, if you come to visit me this time next year and your stay falls on Holy Week, don't worry, I always have a bottle of wine handy.

Thank the Lord for His sacrifice today, and Pura Vida.

Monday, April 2, 2012

semana santa

This week is a special one.
Yesterday night marked the start of "Semana Santa" or Holy Week here in Costa Rica. And being a Latin American country and 90% Catholic this means that there is a lot happening!
Many people have vacations, holidays, trips and family events planned for this week. I think it is safe to say that Easter here is an even bigger celebration than Christmas!

The bus schedules are limted, making travel a big deal and more stressful than usual. In places like Monteverde with limited bus service on a normal day, the week leading up to Easter you will see even more movement and travel than usual. Throughout the country you will see the buses full, with people sitting on arm rests and standing crowded together like sardines. On Good Friday there is no service anywhere, usually. And in the days following Easter you will again see lots of movement as people go home.

The beaches are packed, as many people take time off during this week and go on vacation with family and freinds. The beach is of course the number one destination...and you will find folks camping, hotels and hostels crowded, and restuarants busy with people visiting. More than just the normal tourists visiting, you see many Ticos out and about too.

Churches have all kinds of events. Opportunities to go to Confession are offered on a special schedule, there are special Rosaries and Masses, and of course the Easter Processions. The Crucifixtion is acted out in a living Stations of the Cross, with people from the community acting out individual characters...you see more men with beards! And on Easter Sunday there are various Masses.

Foods that you see only once a year are around...special desserts, meats, dishes that take lots of time and effort to prepare. My mother-in-law is making all kinds of treats! I hope that I will learn to make some, taste some. But no Easter eggs, no bunnies, no pastels or fake grass...no Cadbury Eggs! The chocolate I will miss, I admit. Cadbury Eggs are a family tradition, along with a "mona cake," a special Easter cake that my mom and I always make and decorate for Easter Sunday.

For now I am working until Wednesday. Thursday I already have my ticket to go home, and Friday I hope to spend time with E. Saturday and Sunday I will be working...Sunday night I hope to make it to Mass!! I know it will be a full service, no matter what time I go. After all, it will be Easter Sunday in Costa Rica.

Pura Vida

Thursday, March 29, 2012

back on land

I think something strange happened to my center of gravity afer being on a ship for 72 hours...I still find myself a little wobbly!(below the sunset leaving Caldera on Saturday)


Now I can say I have seen Drake Bay and Golfito, though I did not stay in either place for long. The rest of the week the cruise will be in Panama, and E will again get to cross the canal! I loved the boat...being at sea was great, everyone was very friendly (passengers and staff) and the accomodations were amazing! Even the food in the staff dining room (getting real salad every day was great!), and having a glass of wine with E on deck in the evenings, dressed up for the night events was phenomenal! Neither of us has seen the other dressed up like that before, and it was a lot of fun.

It was a wonderful experience, and I learned a lot  being behind the scenes and getting a look at what makes everything function.Sadly, the couple that E and I were going to take over for has decided to stay on for the coming season, and so the position is no longer available. They were however, very impressed with both of us and in the case that anything opens up we are at the top of their list.
As E said, it was a good ride either way...and it was great to be together. This Saturday he comes home! Hoping I can be there.
Before getting home I stopped over in San Vito, where E and I got married to visit with some friends who recently welcomed a new child into the family! I stayed here (the owners are the friends I mentioned). It was quick and satisfying visit, and I hope I can go agagin soon...despite the long, LONG bus ride!

Right now I am back up in the mountains of Monteverde, and the weather change has been a bit of a shock! I slept with socks last night and still felt cold. My rain jacket will be my constant companion, and I was outraged at how expensive a sandwich was yesterday getting a quick lunch. On the whole though, it is great to be around familiar faces and have good company...this place will always be very special to me.
Yesterday I went to visit with Muni at her house, and her baby boy is so big! Later tonight we are going to visit the jacuzzi here at the school, and hopefully make brownies. After leaving yesterday evening I stopped by the little supermarket to get some basics for breakfast the next few days. And of course I run into another good freind, Royner! And we go to a new place that opened recently and caught up over a glass of wine and a beer (just for the record, I had the beer!). Only here can I run into someone like that...! Monteverde is just that kind of place. Looks like I will be here for about three weeks...and I am kind of wishing that I hadn't left so many of my sweatshirts in the USA.
Good thing I have friendships that will buffer me against the mountain chill!

Pura Vida

Friday, March 23, 2012

what is happening in the natural world....

In an unusual natural occurance here on the Pacific Coast, we are seeing now the results of a red tide. The water in Flamingo Marina is red and murky, while Playa Flamingo, the popular swimming beach, has stayed clean.
This happens from time to time and is described by the locals as "oceanic mensttuation." From the sight and smell of the sea today, I can tell you we will be glad when it is over... This also happens in the US, in coastal places. It doesn't just affect Costa Rica.
E warned me about getting in the water while this is happening, that it can result in a rash or some other kind of skin irritation. So be careful if you see any red beaches while you are here!

Pura Vida.

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This week initially looked like a black hole, especially after the long Monday!! But here we are staring Friday in the eye, and I am feel pretty chipper this morning.
The reasons for my good mood are many...

I have been getting a very good night's rest.
My Familia Tica this week has been excellent, and I have enjoyed having hermanitas all week to talk and laugh with. My Mama Tica has been great, and is such a tranquil and practical soul, not to mention a phenomenal cook. I don't know what it is about the beach...the sun, air, heat? Or maybe just the job this week has left me worn down every evening and I have slept beautifully. Being with a family the last week has been an absolute pleasure!

Snorkel tour.
Today as a closing activity for the group we are going on a snorkel tour! This is on a huge catamaran with a great company, and the students always enjoy swimming and sunsets. I love being on the water as well, and have been looking forward to this experience all week. It is a perfect tour to wrap up your experience here! The students always love it.

Saying ADIOS!
This group has really worked me out all week, the adults being more demanding than I am accustomed to. Every day has birthed all sorts of extra odds and ends to fix, but all has run smoothly and more than ever I have had practice in being flexible, rolling with he punches, and getting things done. All the same, looking forward to waving goodbye tomorrow at the airport!

Getting on a boat...!
This is by far the main reason for my good mood. Remember how I mentioned a job opportunity that E and I were looking at? We applied for a position on a cruise ship for this upcoming season, as the company is looking to hire couples. They already know and like E very much, after his working with them for the last two months. They have asked me to come on board to observe, learn procedure and "try me out" for a guest relations position. So until Monday I will be on a cruise ship! For the next few days I may put internet on my phone, so I can still check mail, etc. Internet on board is a dollar a minute...! Which does not fit in my budget. On the whole I am excited and more than a little nervous, and looking forward to seeing E! Again will keep you posted about how it all turns out...

Pura Vida.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

platano maduro-fried plantain

If you have tried this staple of Costa Rica, often found on your plate for breakfast next to a mountain of gallo pinto or accompanying a typical casado, then you can try replicating the same flavor at home...

Costa Rica has an abundance of readily available fresh produce...find the freshest yellow plantain (larger than a banana!) you can. Keep in mind you may also stumble across the green variety, which can be used for stews or picadillos. But pick a nice ripe yellow one.

Remove the skin. I usually do this by cutting it evenly in half, right through the middle. Short-ways, not long.
Then cut in quarter inch pieces.

The key to making this dish correctly? The OIL.
You want to use regular vegetable oil in a pan, covering the bottom well so that the plantain will not stick. Be sure to let the oil heat until it is hot enough to fry. (This is a common mistake...if you put the plantain in to early it soaks up the oil, gets mushy, and takes longer to cook...make sure the oil is ready for frying!)
Fry until both sides of the plantain are a light brown.
Remove from the pan and let excess oil soak into a paper towel or napkin on a plate before serving.

Serving suggestion: natilla! (sour cream)

Try it! and enjoy a little taste of Costa Rica...buen provecho ; ))

Pura Vida

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

24 hours of chaos

I already miss my group of kids from Indiana. There is just something special about people from the Midwest, being open and friendly and just really nice in general...not that I am biased or anything, haha!
In any case a group of 22 twelve-year-olds was more managable than the folks I am with now...! It seems that adults tend to make a lot more fuss when removed from their comfort zone, and can be a little more...delicate?



After dropping my kids off at the airport Sunday morning and making sure they got through security, I took a bus to Liberia (about 20 minute ride) and had lunch, and waited for a pick-up.
First impression was great! This group seemed full of friendly folks, with lots of good questions. We arrived on time to the school to do testing and orientation, and all the new students sat down to take thier written and oral entrance exams...this helps to place them in the correct level of Spanish, so the teacher knows where they are starting from and what to work on in class. One student was a mother who is a beginner...and after taking one look at the exam she totally broke down in tears! And decided not to study.
I can understand feeling overwhelmed when faced with a learning challenge, and the frustration of having to start learning another language from scratch...I was there once! And it is a challenge. But I was surprised by this woman's reaction...it seemed overdone.
So a crying adult...well at least it wasn't a crying student! And at least we knew from day one that she decided not to study, instead of a mid-week meltdown...!
Afterwards I went with everyone to meet thier new host families. This region of Guanacaste is pretty rural and the locals live more removed from the commercial beachfront properties, more inland and not usually right on the ocean. Most do not have air conditioning, or running hot water, or all the things we North Americans consider "necessities." Homes are smaller and simpler, many older folks do not speak English, and to keep cool they drink lots of liquids and keep doors and windows open. In an uncommon and unfortunate turn of events, the water was out Sunday night in the host family neighborhood. In talking with my Mama Tica she told me that this happens from time to time, but that in the morning it would be back on, no worries. Around 9pm I got a call from the profesor of my group, very anxious and concerned...how are the students to bathe? What will they drink? Could we have them stay elsewhere? So after 10 minutes of calls and reassuring her, we agreed to see in the morning how everyone was and go from there. I ended up getting everyone to school early to shower, and by the time class started the homestays all had water again...but this professor was not content. After only one night with a host family, almost all of the students left to stay in some nearby apartments maintained by the school. The reasoning was that they were afraid of the water running out, and expected a different environment. And they were very lucky that there was room in the apartments, otherwise they would have had to stay with the host families.

Bottom line? SUCK IT UP! If you come to another country and expect everything to be the same as where you are from, you are sadly mistaken. Not everyone lives the North American lifestyle, and you have to come with an open mind to really appreciate and get the most out of any intercultural experience. I was embarassed for the students and sad for the families (after working to prepare thier homes to recieve a student, and then have the student leave after only one night!)...and I think this group has already given me more gray hairs than my kids from Indiana.


Having an open mind and being flexible make you a good cultural ambassador and make your trip and experience more fun.
Hoping the rest of the week goes smoothly, after 24 hours of chaos.


Pura Vida.

Friday, March 16, 2012

pictures of la playa

 Playa Flamingo
 Afterglow in Playa Potrero
Soaking up some sun!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

beach living

This week has been hot hot HOT. Here in Guanacaste summer is scorching, literally. With the heat and lack of rain there has been an increase of forest fires and you can see smoke rising all around as the ground slowly smolders and the fires spread. Not the fast burning forest fires (Bambi anyone?)but slow and steady fires that leave the ground scorched and some trees standing. It has been unnerving seeing the smoke so close to residential areas, but if we are in real danger we will be forewarned and evacuated. Today we visited Tamarindo and the kids learned to surf! It was so cool to see some of them get up on the first try. I always feel like a mother hen when I have kids this age...11 and 12 years old. I am thankful that they are very respectful and well behaved! It has been wonderful with them so far. This week I have also had a room-mate. One of my co-workers has been here at the school helping with all the little deatils for each group. I realize how much I miss having room-mates after having some good conversations in the evening. E and I are seriously considering an exciting work opportunity that would be for a few months. We will both be interviewing soon; all I will say is that is in tourism and hospitality. Well the evening is winding down and the sky is full of stars, seen so clearly over the Pacific ocean without light pollution from the city all around. There is a refreshing breeze and the air smells like dust and salt... What I wouldn't give for E's company and a glass of vino tinto :)) This is....PURA VIDA.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Vamos a la playa!!

Tomorrow I head to Guanacaste for a while. Om Monday I pick up at the airport and then have a group for a week. I am looking forward to the distraction work provides... Being alone at home so much is starting to get to me a bit. Not to mention that the beach is a beautiful place to go. Guanacaste is renown for it's beaches. After I will head To Monteverde for a while. So in my backback you will find both my rainjacket and bikinis. You have to be ready for nything, you know! At least in my job. Lately I have been missing E a lot. He will be home in the next 3 weeks but I will be working. I am very much looking forward to when we will both have some time off. Quality time does wonders! Come find me at the beach: I will be the girl with a seriously fabulous tan. Pura Vida

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

postcards

Just yesterday I sent a few messages home to loved ones. During the time I visited in the USA I think I really took for granted the fact that so many of the people I care about were just a phone call or a short drive away. Now that I am back here in Costa Rica it is that much more difficult to stay in touch...on the one hand it really is a testament to the kind of friendship you have with someone, making the effort to reach out and send an e-mail, Facebook message, or a little note. But the other side is that it does take just that little extra push on your part...making time to sit down and write the message, stopping to collect your thoughts and convey them to that person, in the middle of what we are wrapped up in at the moment. And it is a two way street. The person has to write you back! Isn't it funny how we always seem so busy, that we are left without time to do something so quick and simple as reach out...?

It really is an effort. And it teaches you who really matters.
If you would like to get a postcard from me, leave your address as a comment on here! I will be more than happy to write you.

Saludos!

Pura Vida

Sunday, March 4, 2012

a taste of gallo pinto

Yesterday was pretty good!

E was nearby at the Port of Caldera, and came home for a little while to drop off  and to pick up some things from home. His one request was a good, typical breakfast...on board the ship they do not serve a lot of rice and beans, as the style of meal is more North American. So I whipped up some coffee, gallo pinto, fried banana, scrambled eggs and fried cheese for him...and in true form, he ate two plates! We worked on the whole Visa thing some too, and I have to tell you...the questions they ask are out of this world ridiculous!!!
"Do you plan to engage in any terrorist activity while in the United States?" Well no, and even if I was, do you really think I would divulge that in my application?! Honestly, we Gringos are so silly sometimes!!!
It was great to see E, in any case, and of course now I find myself wishing I had gotten one last hug or kiss before saying goodbye! Not sure when we will be able to touch base again. We are investigating a work opportunity that could be very promising...I won't say anymore, but will keep you posted. Let's just say we would be working together.

This next Thursday I begin working again, my month of vacation is almost over. I will be going to the beach, not sure for how long...and so I had better pack sunscreen and flip flops! Packing really is pretty difficult though, as I am not sure of the locations I will be vsisiting. Between Monteverde, Heredia and Flamingo you have to be ready for all weather, which means I need both a bikini and a sweatshirt. The most important thing to remember about the job: be flexible!

I am super happy with my new phone! Note about the phones here: until recently one company had a monopoly on all telecommunications here, but now there are various companies and plans. My phone plan is pay as you go and I spend something like $10 a month on average! And the other day I discovered that I can enable my phone to have internet for the day for a charge of about 50 cents!!! How cool is that?? I wonder if any companies in the USA have a similar offer...I only know of Tracphone as offering pay-as-you-go.
In any case, I love my phone!

Well, just got out of church here and now I am headed home for a late breakfast...
Loving the sun and already missing E!

Pura Vida

Friday, March 2, 2012

things i miss about the USA

Sometime last week I wrote down a list of things that I find myself missing, and while I do not have it here with me, a lot of it is still fresh in my mind. I sent a couple postcards a while ago, and in the last few days I have gotten messages from the recipients and it has made me feel sentimental...thus the topic of this post.

-hugging my family
-Reeses Cups
-postal service
-highways
-Starbucks (let me be clear, it is not the coffee so much as the frappaccinos! because the coffee here is infinintely better)
-Bud Light
-online shopping
-being able to visit/call family
-family vacation
-cereal (specifically Honey Bunches of Oats with Almonds!)
-gym
-IKEA

There are many more things, but that is all I can think of for the moment.
Not to say that I do not love where I live now! On the whole I think life here is much more satisfying, and much less materialistic, and well, much cheaper than the typical lifestyle in the USA. What people here pay for rent, fresh fruits and veggies and cell phone bills are much more economical here.
I will finish by saying that I have a pineapple waiting to be cut at home, and that I know it will taste much better than anything I could get in the USA : ))

Pura Vida!

ps. Excited to see E tomorrow!

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

smalltown joys and difficulties

This past weekend was wonderful.
I went to spend some time with my mother-in-law and extended family in E's hometown. It is a tiny little pueblo, and it is quite a ways away...talk about 3 hours from where we live, a grand total of 5 hours if you are coming from San Jose. And it is a long and winding road. I got to downtown Upala and waited a bit for the bus, but ended up getting a ride from my sister-in-law, B. By bus it is about an hour from downtown Upala to the pueblo where E is from.

I have not eaten so much since Christmas with my family! My suegra (mother-in-law) is much like my grandma in that her way of showing affection involves feeding you...I had so much rice and such hearty servings that I always felt full, but still ate a little bit of everything. It was wonderful to spend time with her, we talked about life in the pueblo, about her dficulties with her kids and grandkids, about her past, family, memories of E as a kid and how things are now...she is truly an amazing and incredibly strong woman, who I admire and love very much.
It is amazing too how small the town is...everyone knows everyone else! My suegra comes from a family of 10 kids, and 8 of them live there in the same town, walking distance from each other. Just 150 meters down the dirt road lives B with her 3 daughters, my nieces. Being from such a smalltown is nice, you feel at home, you feel safe. But it is sad too, to see how stuck in the past some people are. Many of the people my age have not completed elementary or high school. There are some folks living in poverty, or at least with a low quality of life...you know everyone's failures or difficulties, your neighbor's business, the good, bad and ugly of it. It is a beautuful and tranquil place, but it is a little too small.
On Sunday we went to "mass" though it was really just a service, since the priest can only come once a month. My suegra taught me how to make arroz con piña, or rice with pineapple. She sent me home with homemade ice creams, a kilo of cheese, tamales she saved from Christmas (which I ate for dinner last night) and a pineapple. I have really grown to love my extended family, and I am glad that I get along so well with my suegra...sometimes relationships with mother-in-laws can be difficult. But I love my extended family, and seeing where he came from makes me love and appreciate E even more.

On Saturday I will get to see E! So excited, cannot wait!

Pura Vida


Friday, February 24, 2012

future resident of Costa Rica?

On Wednesday I went to immigration for the first time. On the whole it was a rewarding experience, and some quality time with my Mama Tica, who I am continually grateful for in my life!

I woke up late! and jumped out of bed, grabbed my  bag and booked it to the bus station. I met with my Mama Tica at the Hospital Mexico, right outside of downtown San Jose. From there we walked to Immigration, took a ticket, and sat down to wait.
In summary, I am missing two important items to complete my application. One is my husband! In a recent change of rules, individuals who are applying for residency through marriage must appear with thier spouse at Immigration to authenticate the marriage and sit through an interview together. This is difficult as E is working on a cruise ship, so we will have to go back together when he is free. This is one detail I was not aware of, that I did not see written anywhere in directions on how to apply or information about the process. But it makes complete sense...I have heard of too many cases where the marriage was a sham for an expat to just get residency. Two, I need to register with the US Embassy here in Costa Rica. So, I made an appointment for next week and since I will have the paperwork the same day, I can go drop it off at Immigration. Those are the only two things I need to complete my residency application!
Since I have now applied, I am no longer required to leave the country every 90 days to renew my tourist visa, which is a relief.
Thank goodness for Mama Tica, who has helped with this process before, and who knew all the right questions to ask and helped to clarify some small points. I treated her to lunch once we finally finished up!

Still a long way to go...but someday I will be able to say I am a resident of this beautiful country.

Now off to see my extended family this weekend...adios!

Pura Vida!

ps. I finally have a working phone!!! whoo hoo!!

Monday, February 20, 2012

festivals and cruise ships

This weekend was quite a whirlwind...here is a summary.

FRIDAY: San Jose
SATURDAY: Puntarenas and Caldera
SUNDAY:  Puntarenas and rest

Friday I left Esparza early and met with my Mama Tica in Heredia, and after a quick breakfast we went by bus to San Jose to start the application for residency, which includes having totally updated and authenticated documentation. We went to the Civil Registry (Registro Civil) for marriage certificates, to the Yellow House (Casa Amarilla) to authenticate my birth certificate, and then to the Ministry of Public Security (Ministerio de Seguridad Publico) to get fingerprinted. Then we got lunch and went shopping to get my extended family birthday gifts, as my step-son, mother-in-law and niece all have February birthdays. It was a success in the end, and I finally got back to our casita around 9pm. My two sisters-in-law(B and I) and birthday niece (G) happened to be in Esparza this night, and I went to spend it with them at a nearby hotel (note: there aren't any actual hotels here in Esparza, but there are various "cabinas" that you can rent for a night or days at a time.). It was great to see them!! I hope to go to Upala and se my mother-in-law next weekend, it's been ages!!!

On Saturday I got to see E finally, after 3 weeks. My sister-in-law (B) dropped me off at the port of Caldera and E came to pick me up and take me on board...the ship is really a large sailboat, and falls into the luxury category...!! I was impressed at every turn, with the dining room and handrails and staff, and everyone was very friendly and had nothing but good things to say about E. It was very impressive!! What a treat it would be to go on a cruise with that company Windstar Cruises . I am glad E likes what he is doing, and that everything is going so well. We will see each other again on March 3rd.
Saturday afternoon I went to the Festivals in Puntarenas, and I met up with Adrian, Muni's hubby in the bus and we hung out, and it was really cool! We saw Ziggy Marley in concert. The next day he went back to Monteverde and I went back to Puntarenas to meet up with some other friends, who I was never able to get in touch with. Thus I went home and realxed the rest of the day.

Today I have been running errands for E and in a moment will head home for lunch...
This week I hope to go to immigracion and get all my paperwork in. That would be ideal.

Pura Vida.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Day of Love and Friendship: Valentine's Day

In Costa Rica Valentine's Day is much more relaxed than in the USA.

We gringos have gone waaaaay overboard in making the holiday more than it is: a saint's day that has been commercialized to the point of making your stomach turn. Think about it...In the weeks leading up to the 14th of February you are bombarded by ads on tv. Your ears are assaulted by the radio with love songs (my Dad listens to the soft rock station), and every store window is decked out with pink, red, white, heart shapes and cut out cupids of the Raphaelite sort. Hallmarks are super busy, Old Navy comes out with Valentine's Day themed shirts, and even the CVS is full of candy and cards and tacky stuffed bears holding boxes of chocolates. If there is any day that you should say "I love you," it is today. And don't forget the flowers, of course!

One of the things I like best about today is that E and I are celebrating our 6 month anniversary, and it is also my mother-in-law's birthday. So this is not just any day...! Several important events fall on this date.
Another thing is that the Ticos do not celebrate only "love" but also "friendship." So while you can tell your significant other "I love you," you can also go to a friend or family member and give them a big hug and make them feel appreciated and loved! It is much more inclusive, not just about romantic but also platonic relationships, and people act accordingly giving hugs all around instead of focusing on just one person. Of course, couples do special things together but there is not as much emphasis on gifts or as much pressure to do something big and meaningful. Muni's nanny is making her hubby a special dinner! Muni and Adri went out last night. Tonight we have a reservation for 3 at the sushi restaurant in town, and I am looking forward to it!
I decided not to go home today after all, as I would be alone and just the thought is depressing...missing E a lot today, needless to say, for the holiday and our anniversary. It will be so great to see him again on Saturday!

So today I wish you all Happy Valentine's Day, and Feliz Dia de Amor y Amistad!

Pura Vida!

Monday, February 13, 2012

oh mountain road...

Writing from way up here in the Cordillera de Tilaran, and it is a beautiful, blustery day! The sun is out and you can see the trees reaching their roots deeper into the ground as they resist the winds that billow and buffet them... Thankfully it isn't cold, as I only brought one sweatshirt and a scarf. The sun is so bright you need sunglasses every time you step outdoors, and if you are out too long you WILL get burned! Love that I have a little stick of sunscreen in my emergency bag.
Tonight I will be babysitting for Muni and Adri, as they go out for some alone time and to celebrate Valentine's Day.

Being around a baby makes me fall in love...they are such amazing little people, and Muni and Adri have been blessed with a real cutie who is not only a heartbreaker but a very happy little guy! He fusses when he is hungry or needs changed or is frightened, but is not a melancholy or grumpy baby. And being around the baby fulfills my maternal instincts without having to be committed to having a kid of my own...E and I are of the same mind, that we would like to be a little more settled (ok, a LOT more settled) and stable before we start a family. But God's plans are not my plans, so we will see. For now I am super content to spoil Muni and Adri's baby.

Getting up here was a little bit of an adventure! On Friday afternoon I got to the highway bus stop around 4pm. There was some traffic, and it was stop and go, and finally around 4:45pm I saw the bus coming, with bug blue "MONTEVERDE" written on the front...and to my dismay it turned and went into Esparza, to try and avoid traffic I imagine. But it did not pass the stop I was waiting at...and due to the traffic, there was no way for mr to get ahead of it or catch up in time... I waited for 10 minutes, to see if maybe it was just doing a turn around, but no, it didn't come back out onto the highway. So I walked home with my two backpacks and left Saturday morning instead, waiting at another bus stop where the bus is GUARANTEED to pass, and caught it around 8:30am. I forgot how dusty everything is this time of year! There is not much rain at all in the summer. When I get home I am washing my hair. Muni and I baked most of the afternoon, and then Sunday hosted other Monteverde Moms for bonding and brunch, and then ran some errands, and here I am waiting to have lunch in a little bit...
Oh! There was an earthquake this morning, I felt it, being the light sleeper I am. Wow, crazy.

I really miss E. He will be gone until the end of March! If only there was some way I could work on the boat with him. Having time off is nice, but it gets pretty boring always being by yourself (at least we have cable now). All my friends are elsewhere, working or doing something else. But enjoy it while it lasts, I guess. Next weekend I will hopefully get to see E, and it looks like some friends might be coming down for the fiestas in Puntarenas, so I will have some company! I want to go, but definitely not by myself. Looking forward to the little things...they make all the difference!

Pura Vida.

Friday, February 10, 2012

Monteverde here I come!

This weekend I will be visiting Monteverde and some friends there!
Plan to run a few errands around town and then pack and hop on a bus up the mountain...!
After being at home all week it's time to get out for a bit.

E has been offered work through March, which is great! But means that I won't get to see hime soon. Hopefully next Saturday! If all goes well. Meanwhile keeping an eye on things in the casita, investigating visas and residency, and thinking of how sweet it will be to give him a hug when he gets home.

Looking forward to the hills, wind and beautiful sights of my old mountain home for a little while...!

Pura Vida.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Welcome to the US Embassy, San Jose

Yesterday was quite an adventure.
To summarize: I walked, bussed, and wanted to cry in frustration, and got home pretty late.

I left the house around 7:20am, and arrived JUST IN TIME to jump on the bus to San Jose, and a direct one too, which makes fewer stops. I was also lucky enough to get the very last seat! It is never fun to stand on a long bus ride. After arriving to the station I asked a taxi driver how far the embassy was, and how I would go about getting there by bus...in the end I took a taxi, which was a good decision. Otherwise it would have taken a lot longer to get there, and the likelihood of me getting lost was very probable...
Standing at the door to get in I felt so nervous.
(Note about me being nervous and upset...my emotion always seems to collect in my tear ducts, which means I get flushed and feel like crying. This results in me feeling frustrated which only makes me want to cry more...! And on the whole I feel very embarassed and back down, which is no good. Got to find a better way to deal with my nerves.)
I showed my passport and was ushered in. You cannot take in cell phones, by the way. Not an issue since I do not have one at the moment! US citizens have every priority, and can jump lines and are attended to better. Remember that I was going to ask about getting E a visa? Well this is where I got pretty frustrated...There was no one available to talk to directly about the process, and in order to talk with someone directly I have to make an $18 appointment. Otherwise I can call during certian hours, three days a week, or check online for requirements. They did not have a copy of the application eiether...basically I was in and out in about half an hour!! With none of my questions answered. And since I do not have a phone, calling to ask questions is tough. I think I will come tomorrow morning and use some of my Skype minutes to try and call. Otherwise I need a bunch of change and a working pay phone, which I think would be pretty expensive. Just hope thinsg arrive here soon...one thing I do miss about the USA is the security of sending mail. Here you always take a risk sending something!
Anyway I left the Embassy and walked all the way down to the bus stop...which was about 30-40 minutes. I passed the National Stadium, and ICE headquarters (the Instituto Costaricense de Electricidad, the biggest and until recently only provider of cell phone, internet and electricity in the country), asked directions twice and crossed the highway to arrive to a bus stop where I got a bus to Heredia, and then once in Heredia got on another bus that went to San Joaquin, and spent some time with my Mama Tica. We just chatted and had lunch and then ran some errands, and I felt a lot better after. Around 7:30pm they dropped me off at my bus stop, and I had to wait about half an hour for the bus I needed....!!! I slept fitfully on the bus with my arms around my backpack, and woke in time to get off at my stop and walked home, unlocking my door around 10pm. My bed looked so inviting, I watched the last bit of CSI:NY and fell right asleep.
A long and not so productive day.
I am glad that I visited the Embassy though, and that I learned something about the process of arriving, where to go to ask questions, and was exposed to the experience.
Honestly sometimes I am hesitant to do things by myself here, afraid that I will trip over my Spanish or get lost or end up looking silly. That is a fear I have to learn to let go of! In life we do not always have someone to hold our hand...I think in some ways this time by myself makes me realize how I sometimes depend on others to get things done, and that is something I cannot afford to do. IF YOU WANT SOMETHING DONE YOU HAVE TO DO IT YOURSELF! So when I feel that hesitancy about doing something, I stop and ask myself..."How much do you want it?" And then I take a deep breath and plunge in.

Today I woke up on my own time.
Tomorrow I hope to accomplish something concerning the visa...sigo adelante, luchando. (Moving forward, fighting!)

Pura Vida.

Monday, February 6, 2012

casita

The next couple days will be kind of tough. It is so strange being in our little casita without E! Just so empty. The last 48 hours since coming home have been so dull. Of course, you only realize how much you miss something when it isn't there...

Today I went to get glasses in Puntarenas, and spent about $42 total including my vision test. Mom was trying to convince me to go get them while I was in the USA, but I am glad I waited. So much cheaper!

Meanwhile, I finally ordered a new phone...but I am without until then. It stinks not being able to contact anyone! If I want to make a call, I have to go to the public phone. The closest one is about a 5 minute walk away, uphill. Ugh. E was talking about getting a cheap one in the next couple days and trying to drop it off Saturday. But for now I am just out of touch! Feel free to email or Facebook me though. I can still check those.

Tomorrow I plan to go to the US Embassy in San Jose and get some visa stuff for E straightened out. You wouldn't believe how many different things we have both heard about how long it takes, what you need, how to go about doing it. So I figure I should just go and ask, and hopefully get some of the process started! Wish me luck...

After this blog I will stop by the supermarket and pick up a few things, and then head home for a late lunch. I wish I had some place to go lay out in the sun, but the tiny balcony attached to our casita is not ideal, and going to the beach every day by yourself isn't much fun. I am super happy walking around in flip flops and tank tops, that is a positive!! Love where I live, we have great weather right now!
Always look for the positive.

Pura Vida.

Friday, February 3, 2012

last night on the beach.

This week in Playa Flamingo has been pretty enjoyable.
The group of kids has been wonderful, some of the teachers proved to be more difficult than the students! We have walked on the beach every morning to school, and it has been beautiful. The kids are going home after a very well rounded experience, and I know they have enjoyed it. I certainly have!! The tour on the catamaran yesterday was probably the highlight of my week, with the music, sunset, and a few miguelitos (cacique, cocont milk and ice blended. YUM!). Beautiful.

Today I bought a new phone. Hopefully it will arrive here sometime in the next month, and hopefully it works well. Now E just needs a new one! He is back to using the one I tried to replace with the Blackberry.

Also, E has been granted an opportunity to work on a cruise ship for 15 days as a member of the crew. He leaves tomorrow morning! It could lead to more work opportunities for him through the next three months, and we are both hoping for the best. I will still miss him a lot! We hope to touch base on the weekends, when he is in Caldera (not too far from where we live!). He will be travelling between Costa Rica, Nicaragua and Panama.

Tomorrow I am looking forward to going home and sleeping in for a few days...getting up at 6am has exhausted me this week.
The beach is lovely, and it has been great to enjoy it for a little while.
Now time to rest up, before March Madness begins.

Pura Vida.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Playa Flamingo

Hola from the beach!

This week I am in Guanacaste. If you decide to come visit Costa Rica, you should definitely come to this province...located here are some of the most beautiful and renown beaches in the whole country! I love the beach, and by the time I leave I hope to have a nice deep bronze.

The group I am with is a group of special needs kids...28 of them. The good thing is that they have 7 teachers from their school accompanying them on this trip, and all I do is purely logistical. In addition I have 2 compañeros from CPI here, and between the 3 of us we have everything running smoothly. Life is so much easier when you have someone watching your back! In work, in relationships, every step and adventure...!

Pura Vida. (E and me at the Parque Marino in Puntarenas)



Tuesday, January 24, 2012

toros & tortas

You know how in Spain bullfighting is super famous and is a huge event? Like in Pamplona where they have the running of the bulls. It is world known, and everyone wants to participate. Well, there is a Tico version.

Every year during the first three months of the year cities and towns all over Costa Rica have their annual festivals with carnivals, food, bull riding, basically a big party. I went last year to the carnivals in Puntarenas, and it was a lot of fun! This past week Esparza was having fiestas. On Sunday night E and I stopped after Manuel Antonio to see the bull riding...SO CRAZY! Basically bulls are brought in from all over the country for this competition, and riders get to try and stay on for as long as possible...after the rider falls off, the young men of the given town have free reign inside the pen to agitate the bull as much as possible...they shout at it, run past it, jump over it, run from it, smack its butt, try to get it to chase them... This naturally results in a lot of injuries and is extremely dangerous, but it is incredibly funny to watch. There were some close calls when E and I watched all this happening in Esparza. I had never gone to an event like it, just watched on tv. How cool to really experience it...and I had some churros. YUM!

A "torta" is a mistake or accident, or something that got messed up. (read on...)
I have not mentioned it, but the blackberrys I bought for E and myself have proven to be a great dissapointment. The one I was using stopped working after only one week. The battery got completely run down, and upon trying to recharge it, it turned on and off by itself three times and then just stopped working completely. No matter if you change the battery, plug it in, etc...it doesn't work at all. This is after the sound started to get wierd...it wouldn´t ring, and then if I pressed down on the screen it would ring...it all boils down to a problem with the sound card on this particular model. E's phone has great reception, but there is a strange spot on the screen and the light on the keyboard doen't work well.
Today I have been using E's phone as I was out and about, and just now I tried to add a few songs to it and...totally messed it up. So in addition to having my busted blackberry, I just messed up the other one...so much for getting new phones. Why do people call them crackberrys anyway? They sure aren't all they are cracked up to be...Never again will I buy Blackberry. I should have just stuck with the iPhone.
So, if you feel like helping me with getting a new cell phone...get an unlocked iPhone 3gs and send it on down. It doesn't even have to be a 4...or a 4gs. Just a working cell phone will do for now. What a  torta, right??

Pura vida.... sigh.

Monday, January 23, 2012

starting from zero

I have a sad story to share, though it is a little late in coming,

A week ago now I was robbed while waiting for a ride at a gas station. It was an extremely frustrating and embarassing experience. No, I was not robbed at gunpoint, assaulted, or anything violent. (thank goodness) It was because of a moment of neglect on my part, not following my own advice, letting my gaurd down, and really there is no one to blame but myself...which is why I am still kicking my own ass about it.

After leaving the house to get to Monteverde last weekend, I got off at a gas station by the highway that was to be the meeting point for students leaving the mountain and going up to it. I arrived, bought a snack, and sat down to wait. Shortly after the driver who had come down the mountain arrived with students, and so I set my bags down next to the car and sat in front to wait for the other vehicle. While sitting and waiting, I see out of the corner of my eye a car stopped and someone tossing something into the backseat...MY BAGS! I jumped down and ran over, seeing a black Hyundai Elantra leaving and my eyes flew to where I had left my two backpacks, propped against each other. There was only one, Big Blue, loaded with all my clothing and personal items. The other, Little Brown, was gone. I felt like I was about to choke on my own tongue...I didn't know whether to scream or yell or cry! I ran back to the car and told the driver...he sped off to see if he could catch the robbers. The panic was starting to flood me and I paced, nervously balling my fists and running my hands through my hair. The driver got back with no success...my bag was gone. In there I had my laptop, external hard drive, a camera, my wallet, umbrella, waterbottle, headphones, sunglasses, an envelope with some cash, and a folder with several personal documents and bank info.

HOW COULD I HAVE LET THIS HAPPEN?????????????????????????????????? I always tell my students to watch their bags, never leave them alone. And for some reason I did just that, leaving myself open to being a victim. What was I thinking? ...That it wouldn't happen to me. My bags were in sight, it was ok. That I was in a safe place. WRONG!
The most frustrating of all is that I could have just put the bags in the very car I was sitting in...it was the one that went to Monteverde. Of all the things I lost, I was most upset about the external hard drive. It was the backup for all of mine and E's files, documents, pictures, movies, music... I lost everything, EVERYTHING. But E also lost important info. Upsetting too is that I almost left that external at home, and I should have. I didn't need it. What also gave me a panic attack later that night was the loss of my personal documents...and we are talking personal documents! Information for my residency, bank stuff, pay stubs. That was all gone.
It was just a moment of letting my gaurd down, letting myself feel too comfy...and it was a disaster.

Trying to see the positive.
While I did not have any way to check my e-mail or listen to music, at least I had clean underwear all last week. Big Blue, with all my clothes stayed put. Also, at least I didn't get physically hurt...it was a nonviolent crime, and that is something else to be grateful for. (Just for the record, while recently violent crime has been on the rise,  the vast majority of crimes in CR are crimes of opportunity, and nonviolent.) Last but not least, all the things I lost were material things, and while it will be costly, can be replaced. It's not like I lost a limb, life goes on with or without you connecting to the internet/taking pictures/ blogging abou it!
I cancelled my cards and I only had a little cash stolen. That is not a big deal! Replacing the cards is easy.
On Wednesday night, I got a phone call from an unknown number. It was a woman who lives near Sardinal, calling to tell me that her husband had found a ton of papers on the side of the road...MY PAPERS! He had picked them up thinking to throw them away, and noticed what they were...and they called me to see how they could get them back to me! We arranged a meeting on Saturday, when I would be on my way down the mountain, and I recovered pretty much all the papers I lost, including the residency documents and bank info. THANK GOD!  I was so surprised and so happy that someone would make the effort to do that! So all is not lost...just most. At this point I don't feel like crying when I think about what happened, but I am still very frustrated with myself. Live and learn, right?

Bottom line is that I learned a very painful and very important lesson. NEVER LEAVE YOUR STUFF ALONE, EVER.
So if you want to help me out with replacing anything, I would appreciate it ; )

Pura vida...Costa Rica.

Sunday, January 22, 2012

picture for "monkeys at breakfast"


monkeys for breakfast

Last Saturday I accompanied E to Curu again, a great place to see wildlife. It is a private reserve on the tip of the Nicoya peninsula (if you want to look it up).

We had a visitor for breakfast....a female spider monkey! She watched us eat, you could tell she was looking for a hand out. Later on in the afternoon I saw her steal a bag of chips from an unattended bag on the beach! But she was not agressive at all. E says it is because the animals in Curu have had so much exposure to humans that they are no longer afraid...later there was also a deer on the beach, weaving in and out of patches of shade and licking the salt (from the dry seawater) off eager hands of other folks on the beach.

I also ended up playing kickball with some locals...never knew that game was at all popular with the Ticos! You just never know...

Oh, I got a sunburn too.
More later!

Pura Vida

Thursday, January 12, 2012

perfect view

Check out the view today! In the background is Barva Volcano (left) and Poas Volcano (right). Loving the sun!

Pura Vida.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

yo, hoy.

From San Joaquin de Flores, Heredia, Costa Rica.

Pura Vida.

Monday, January 9, 2012

two national parks in two days

So you know how weekends are supposed to be relaxing? Well this one was...and wasn't.

On Friday afternoon I bid my group farewell as they headed down to Manuel Antonio National Park with their guide. I then sprinted home and changed, grabbed my bag and headed home. I got there around 7:30 after a quick bus ride. E had to work the following morning in Curu, a private wildlife reserve. The only way to get there is to take a ferry across the gulf of Nicoya, from Puntarenas to Paquera, and then go from Paquera inland to get to the park. We spent the night at a friend's house next to the ferry, and hopped on early in the morning...early as in catching a 5am boat. How beautiful, watching the sunrise on the ferry and cruising through the water. Boats always make me giddy, I love the way they bob on the water. Luckily I have never had seasickness (or motion sickness) or I would be in trouble...
Once in Paquera we caught a bus that dropped us off right at the park entrance, and we walked in to the beach where E waited for his group to arrive. E used his telescopio to zero in on some cool birds as we walked in, and we saw pizotes and a deer too! Curu is a wonderful place to see wildlife! While E was on the tour I relaxed on the beach, in the shade. I fell asleep for a little while, and then by 1pm we were on our way to catch the 2pm ferry back to the Puerto. It was a fast morning! Saturday evening we relaxed at home and prepared for the next day...Manuel Antonio!

I felt like I was following my group. We got up early again Sunday morning, to catch a 5am bus that....never came. E being a quick thinker, got us on a bus for the Puerto and we got off on the highway to wait for a bus to take us where we needed to go. (The plan was for him to do the tour in Carrara while I went ahead to manuel Antonio and waited for him in the national park.) We had already missed that second bus...all seemed pretty hopeless when a passing car stopped and beeped furiously at us. A guy waiting next to us thought it was his friend picking him up, but no, it was E's friend from the University! and he was going to Manuel Antonio! and he offered us a ride! Wonderful, a miracle, how blessed. E got to the pick-up point on time, and I got dropped off in Quepos to grab some breakfast and then a bus down to Manuel Antonio. I enjoyed a big plate of gallo pinto and some cafe con leche before buying a few snacks at the next door Super, and then walked across the street to get a bus.
Wow, what an interesting mix of people on that bus. Locals heading to or from work or home, folks staying in Quepos hotels going down to the beach, day-trippers and backpackers and couples and...a guy from Catalonia who sat right next to me. I walked him to the entrance of the National Park and we waited in the long line (again, what an interesting mix of people! familes on vacation, young college kids, Europeans on vacation, day-trippers and locals enjoying a free Sunday) and then got into the park. I made a beeline for the beach, which is about a 20 minute walk. Once there I dropped my bag and jumped in, and the water was perfffffffect! Later I moved to a better location down the beach and sunbathed and swam until E called me to invite me to lunch. We ate at a nearby hotel/restaurant and my quesadilla de pollo (chicken) was amaaaaaaaazing! I needed help finishing it.
We decided against going back into the national park and instead stayed at the hotel pool, sat at the wet bar and ordered drinks. How relaxing, how wonderful! It was some quality time, I loved it! Also I invented a new drink which turned out pretty good:

Malibu rum
triple sec
cranberry juice
soda water
over ice, garnish with a slice of lime

Give it a try!
Then we caught a bus from Manuel Antonio to Quepos and from Quepos back to the Puerto and then back home. We got ready for Monday and fell right asleep!

This morning I caught a 4:30am bus back to Heredia. I was back with my Familia Tica before 6am, and napped for half hour before getting breakfast and then leaving for work. And here I am.

So you see what I mean by relaxing...but not? Needless to say tonight I am going to bed early. Hmm, while taking the bus is easy and cheap here, on days like Saturday and Sunday I can see why it would be convenient to have a car available, haha!

Living and loving life...Pura Vida.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Best of 2011 (in pictures)

 JANUARY with my hermanita, Maria Jose
 FEBRUARY going to the carnival in Puntarenas 3 weekends in a row with students/friends
 MARCH trip to Nicaragua with Sarah North
 APRIL churros with my hermana Lucy
 MAY sambuca with Clara and Royner...Clara Fire!
 JUNE say hello to old friends and running through high season
 JULY Skype with my parents!
 AUGUST  marry the love of my life and saw Rio Celeste
 SEPTEMBER visit Santa Teresa, Malpais (above) and Montezuma with my hubby
 OCTOBER visit the USA and make gallo pinto for my family
 NOVEMBER thanksgiving
DECEMBER last Christmas in Ohio, time with the fam

What will 2012 bring? Vamos a ver...

Pura Vida!